Sunday, June 26, 2011

Your first love relationship starts with you only

Why people feel lonely and sad? Why they always need somebody to fill their loneliness? When they meet someone special, they attract to him and make a quick love relationship. They define it love. Sharing thoughts, feelings and emotions are necessary to make a love relationship alive. But when is the last time you show love to yourself? Where is the “you” among your all relationships? All of you don’t do anything to make your relationship with yourself strong and always alive.


Sit and think for a while about real love. Real love doesn’t need anything. But then why you need someone to fill the gap of your life? Don’t think that there is always a need of someone to live happy, to feel happy, and to be loved. You can love yourself and can be sufficient unto yourself. You can be happy with yourself and real love is too possible with yourself.  


You are always feel uncertain and anxiety whether the other’s love for you true or not. It means it’s not the real and true love what you are doing to other. If it is real then why you have worries about it? Let it happens and enjoy it fully. But you can’t able to do this because there is some uncertainty because we can’t read other’s mind and heart what he thinks and desire. Your love is just your need. You want your lover to be with you always to fill your emptiness. You are both just using each other as a thing. 


When the love is finished you realize that it was false. Only false love comes to an end. It’s not like that your love had not any truth but you were both not capable to feel and grasp that truth. You need love but you are not able to feel it. 


You all don’t know to love yourself if you are then rather using anybody, you share love with him. And you feel always thankful to the person for receiving your love with heart. If you love yourself somebody else also loves you. If you are happy with yourself other people also feel happy in your company. Make yourself aware and make your heart realize about the love that is in your heart and it’s not your need it’s your gift given by the God. Make the love relationship alive and share the love with the world.

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