The Toxic Relationships of Love: Recognize and Escape of them.

Love, a strong feeling of affection for somebody, makes a person feel on the high.You can find a lot of books, poems and literature filled with romantic love stories. But does a love story always like a fairy tale or sometimes it can be your worst dream? Love for some people is like a nightmare which destroying their lives. Almost every person love once in their lives but only healthy love goes to next level. Half of the love stories end in bad realities. Only true and healthy love can give the positive results that we
expect from a relationship.

Why love happens

Love is like a celebration of the universe and God’s gift. We are social creatures and need care and love for good living. Human has a tendency to love and to be loved. When we meet someone who shows care and faith to us, we automatically start to attract towards him and make an emotional and mental attachment to him. Infect its not bad or shameful feeling, it’s our human nature. Loving someone is like loving the Almighty.

Recognizing the love relationship

 Firstly, we must be sure that we are committed to a healthy relationship. In our hectic world, everyone is living on their needs. Most people make a relation for just fulfilling their desires. It is tragic but a sad truth that today’s people don’t want to make healthy relationship. Recognizing the toxic love could be hard but not impossible. If you feel insecurity, loneliness, fear in your relationship than it’s the right time to think on it.

Jealousy, possessiveness & competition in a relation can influence one’s health badly. It can cause depression and mental disturbance. Life becomes painful and dull.


Try to resolve or just leave the toxic relation

  If you are in love deeply and feel strong attachment that you can not leave, so it is better to tell your partner about your true feelings and ongoing effects on your health and life. Partners should discuss and consult each other and find a way to solve the problems. But, if it doesn't work, than it the time to end your relation right now and move on.

We Come Alone and definitely We will Go Alone

While reading this title, you might be thinking that I must be a recluse person who became detached from the world or retired from worldly attachments. Well if you are thinking so than you are absolutely wrong. Not only I am but you all also know about this universal truth. Its nature’s law that who take birth on this earth, comes alone and when he will go back to the universe, will go alone.
 The world, all the articles, all the beings and our body all are perishable. One day these all things go for an end. That’s the fate of all of us. But if it is the fate of everyone, why we are here? Why do we Take birth? Why do we Take rebirth? Why do we Make families, relations, jobs and many other human activities?

The whole truth of life is contained in the immortal words of the Gita. “Our duty is only action” perhaps if one descends this truth deep into one’s mind and soul and acts upon it, one will be able to realize the aim for which one come upon this earth. This life of ours is full of so many trials, surprises and sorrows.

Life is a ceaseless struggle not only for us but for everyone. May be sometimes you can not face your pain and start to try to detach yourself from the reality of this life. May be you are not happy with your present time and want to run away from this. But is it the right solution of your problem? Are you the only who are facing all this troubles of life?

Try to accept your responsibilities to this beautiful world. Enrich your life with true relations. We should stop thinking about the future. The events of life are unpredictable. We do not know what is going to take place the next moment. The human life is nothing but just a stage where all our activities constitute a part of the high drama whose producer and director is the Destiny. We should try to make our life fruitful and meaningful. And remember the thing that we are not alone here, our god is within ourselves.