Monday, May 30, 2011

The Toxic Relationships of Love: Recognize and Escape of them.

Love, a strong feeling of affection for somebody, makes a person feel on the high.You can find a lot of books, poems and literature filled with romantic love stories. But does a love story always like a fairy tale or sometimes it can be your worst dream? Love for some people is like a nightmare which destroying their lives. Almost every person love once in their lives but only healthy love goes to next level. Half of the love stories end in bad realities. Only true and healthy love can give the positive results that we
expect from a relationship.

Why love happens
Love is like a celebration of the universe and God’s gift. We are social creatures and need care and love for good living. Human has a tendency to love and to be loved. When we meet someone who shows care and faith to us, we automatically start to attract towards him and make an emotional and mental attachment to him. Infect its not bad or shameful feeling, it’s our human nature. Loving someone is like loving the Almighty.
Recognizing the love relationship
 Firstly, we must be sure that we are committed to a healthy relationship. In our hectic world, everyone is living on their needs. Most people make a relation for just fulfilling their desires. It is tragic but a sad truth that today’s people don’t want to make healthy relationship. Recognizing the toxic love could be hard but not impossible. If you feel insecurity, loneliness, fear in your relationship than it’s the right time to think on it.
Jealousy, possessiveness & competition in a relation can influence one’s health badly. It can cause depression and mental disturbance. Life becomes painful and dull.


Try to resolve or just leave the toxic relation
  If you are in love deeply and feel strong attachment that you can not leave, so it is better to tell your partner about your true feelings and ongoing effects on your health and life. Partners should discuss and consult each other and find a way to solve the problems. But, if it doesn't work, than it the time to end your relation right now and move on.

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