Thursday, June 2, 2011

Value Your Relations not Your Possessions

Relationships are important aspects for all human beings. Everyone expects a long lasting good relationship with his loved ones. In this journey of life, we meet many people and make relationship with them that ranges from professional relationship to personal relationship. These relationships leave a lasting impression upon our lives. A home without family and relations is just a building made of stones and sand. There is no life in this. Your relations give it value.

Understand importance of a relation:
God has already decided who will be in your life. It’s the game of the Destiny. We can’t change it. Hence, you can feel its importance by keeping trust in creator’s choice. Whatever gift life gives us, we have to understand its value, its purpose and its benefits. True relationship adds value and fragrance to life. Whenever you meet someone special who fills the gap of loneliness and brings happiness in your life, make your life worth. Relationship is a commitment that we make to get involved with another person emotionally, physically and spiritually. Relationship is like a plant which needs constantly attention and love to grow into a tree.

How relations breaks:

When you enter into a relationship, you want it to last till the end of the life. Unfortunately, sometimes we become so busy in our professional life that we couldn’t pay attention our relationship thus making it weak and dead. Lifestyles changed and so do people. People are now more career-oriented and money minded. Earning money and making large properties became their first desire. Today, people are not giving enough time and importance to their personal relations. Because of this, after sometimes, cracks and stretches start to show and impact bad effects on a relation and people could not find themselves dedicating more and more time to its maintenance. 

Assess your relationship’s value: 

When you start to find that your relationship no longer suits your needs, at this point, you need to assess your relationship’s value. At this movement you should pay a little attention on its problems through inspection of all the areas. It could be little tough to evaluate the exact situation. Fighting, periodic arguing, constant dissensions and exchange of hot words are the some sign of serious problems.

Relationship has more value than your possessions such as money, wealth, property, great body; good looks etc. If you give them more importance, you will end up a very sad and lonely person in life. These are not much valuable than your relations. Wealth is just a short time desire and cannot give you true happiness; it’s the relationship that value to your life. Ultimately, your happiness is the prime importance. Before getting your true relations lost, start to realize their value otherwise wealth can be earned again in the life but not the true relation.

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