Stifled Relationship Die Soon: No One Can Grow in the Shade

Are you feeling no more excitement in your relationship? Before a relationship comes to that point, you have to take a look at it and try to find out the exact problem.  Human’s nature has always been dependable on one another for a source of fulfillment of one’s requirement of daily life. One wants freedom at some point while at other point he wants togetherness.

But sometimes, this kind of nature creates so much over attachment to each other that relationship becomes stifled. One partner start to overlap other’s feeling and becomes dominant to other. This kind of relationship die soon because of uncommon ground of the both partner’s thinking.

The warning signs:Doing everything together is fun and love but not always. If its only one’s choice and other don’t want to get involved than may be there are more negative feelings, such as possessiveness, clinginess or jealousy involved. One can start to feel lack of attention and find difficult to express his feelings. He feels his growth is prevented by other. The sense of controlling one another developed in that relation. The stifled partner feels less confident and finds him unable to doing anything alone. That causes an emotionally traumatized upbringing to him.

Get rid of this problem:

Talk honestly to your partner about the belief that the healthiness of your relationship is dependent on both of you being able to grow as independent people as well as together in a couple. Happiness of both partners requires growth of their professional lives individually. As much as you can avoid arguing and blaming. Try to clear your partner about your individual need and space. Quiet time, working space and emotional space are must for a healthy relationship.

A partner should be understood the fact that life partner is soul mate not cellmates. Insecurity, fear of loss and misunderstanding should be solved by healthy communications time to time. One need time to one’s own interests and hobbies to make life fun and worthy. Adjusting of space for optimum growth of both individual and the couple is an ongoing demand in all relationships.

Successful couple make prepared themselves for adjusting distance between both when they are close or when gone too far apart. Listen truly to your partner and assure him that this is not about wanting permanent space from your partner. It’s about allowing one a “growth space” as you continues to share your lives and love together. One has to be strong enough to accept this thing by heart and adjust its life when needed. This will not change their love and relationship infect make it more mature. Accept your partner’s advice and give the one a chance to express his feelings.